Signs that you’re going to be a great bridesmaid

While weddings are all about the two people getting married (and, of course, their families), the third most important person/people at the occasion is the bridesmaid. Right from planning the functions, be there right by the bride’s side at their beck and call, showering them with all the love and support on her special day. It’s no easy feat to be a bridesmaid and power through the proceedings with a smile. If you’ve been chosen as one and are probably wondering if you’re cut out for the show (feeling this way is natural), worry not. We’re pretty sure you’re not just good, but great. And below are the reasons why. 

You’re willing to help, anytime and anywhere

Being a bridesmaid is a thankless job where you sign up to be selfless. Remember, if things go right, no one is going to praise you, but if things go wrong, it’s your name on the hit list. That said, you’ve now signed up to serve with a smile. All set to drop everything and just be there for your special friend. No matter how mundane or urgent their request or demand is, you know that if they want it, they’ll get it. All thanks to you. Adding on, you help the bride not because you have to, but because you want to. What makes this feeling stronger is you being as happy as her. The best part is that the bride-to-be isn’t just going to know this but see it as well. 

Always staying positive and respecting the bride’s decisions

Nobody likes a negative Nancy at a wedding, so don’t be that person who says ‘that sounds bad’ or ‘this isn’t going to happen/work’. Being negative all the time can’t make it very stressful for the bride, taking away the joy that she’s supposed to feel on the biggest day of her life. So don’t complain about the food, the colour of your dress, the budget of a certain function, or the location of a certain event; just keep those things to yourself. Do not make your friend’s wedding all about you. Your needs and wants should never take priority over theirs. Furthermore, if you have nothing good to say about things, it’s best you keep quiet and not be pushy. Respect the bride and how she wants her wedding to be. A brilliant bridesmaid is one who is supportive, a team player, and always keeps the mood light and is one joke away from making the nervous bride feel relaxed. 

Zero tolerance for drama

Weddings can lead to a clash of egos between those present. It’s up to you, as a bridesmaid, to ensure that the bride doesn’t get to know about it. There could be arguments about roles and responsibilities, issues that have nothing to do with the wedding, which can lead to a very stressful environment. It’s your job to save the day, maintain good vibes amongst those present, and resolve any problem calmly and in private. 

You understand the bride better than anyone

The best bridesmaids understand the bride without the latter having to say anything about their needs, feelings, and emotions. They need to know that they can rely on you whenever they need to, be able to make you laugh, and be right by their side when you want them the most during the wedding. Wedding planning and the day itself can be exhausting, so being there, as a true friend, is just what they need to make the day tension-free. 

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