6 things you can do if your partner's love language is physical touch

According to Dr. Gary Chapman, there are five love languages: words of affirmation, acts of service, quality time, physical touch, and receiving gifts. Each person expresses love differently, and understanding these differences is crucial for a fulfilling relationship. In our previous articles (links at the bottom), we discussed how to make your partner feel loved if their love languages are words of affirmation or acts of service.

In this one, we talk about 'physical touch' as a love language and explore ways to make your partner feel loved if it is their preferred way of expressing and receiving love.

Cuddle, cuddle, amd then cuddle some more 

Hold their hand more often 

You might not realise it, but holding hands is a significant way to express love. Whether you’re strolling down the street, sitting beside them at a movie, or simply spending time together, holding their hand can make them feel valued and cherished. This gesture is a simple yet powerful way to show affection and doesn’t require much effort. It also strengthens your connection with your partner. Consider this your reminder to make hand-holding a more frequent part of your interactions.

Do the little things 

When it comes to expressing love through physical touch, small gestures can have a huge impact. Simple acts like giving your partner a massage, rubbing their back, or kissing them unexpectedly are intimate gestures that can make them feel deeply loved. These small acts of affection truly show your partner that you care. Make it a point to do these gestures into your relationship—they will surely be appreciated and cherished.

They love PDA

Displaying your love for your partner in public can make them feel valued, respected, and deeply loved. When you show affection through physical touch—whether it’s hugging them often, holding their hand, or being affectionate—you're reinforcing your commitment and care. Such public displays of affection can boost their self-esteem and strengthen your relationship. So, don’t hesitate to express your love openly and frequently; it’s a meaningful way to show them just how much they mean to you.

Assure them in social situations 

If your partner experiences social anxiety, physical touch can be a powerful way to offer comfort and reassurance. Lightly brushing their arm or holding their hand can help them feel more grounded and supported in social settings. Additionally, small gestures such as a gentle squeeze or a reassuring touch on the back can convey your presence and empathy, making them feel less isolated. Your consistent and understanding touch can act as a calming influence, helping them navigate social situations with greater confidence and ease.

Play with their hair 

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Also read: Here’s how you can show your love if words of affirmation are your partner’s language

Also read: If your partner's love language is acts of service, here’s how you can show your love