20 affirmations for a happily-ever-after married life

We all wish for a happily-ever-after with the one we love the most, but it’s hardly as easy as day-dreaming about it. A healthy, nurturing, and loving married life requires equal amounts of care, willingness, and effort to not only make it work, but to create a positive and safe space for both. While there are many ways to go about it, a simple yet powerful step you can take towards this is to recite or write down affirmations for the dream-like married life you’ve always wanted. 

Affirmations are a great way to rid yourself of the perceived failures, flaws, and inadequacies, and focus your attention on the strengths—the ones you possess and those that you desire. When it comes to relationships, affirmations help improve communication and understanding between two people, increase intimacy, and are an expression of affection and love.

However, there are a few keep-in-minds before you begin this journey. Affirmations won’t work unless you do—consider these affirmations as a step towards growth and not growth itself. You must be mindful of your actions towards the relationship if you really want to make this work. We’d also recommend keeping these affirmation as true to your relationship as possible and setting them in the present to believe in these. Lastly, it is important to practice these every day (even more than once) for them to work effectively. Read on below for a list of affirmations you can use to grow, in love. 

We are open to giving and receiving unconditional love from each other. 

During a conflict, it is not us against each other but against the problem. 

We are beings of growth and love.

We value each other for all we bring to the relationship and we bring out the best in each other.

We are in love with each other whole-ly and unconditionally. 

We look forward to spending the rest of our lives with each other. 

My partner is always supportive and encouraging of my dreams and goals. 

I am blessed to have my best friend as my life partner. 

Every day our relationship grows stronger and healthier. 

We will always be there for each other no matter what.

We trust each other completely. 

Loyalty and friendship are the foundations of our relationship. 

I can be open, honest, and vulnerable with my partner. 

I am grateful for a loving and supportive partner. 

Our relationship is based on kindness, empathy, and compassion. 

We grow in love each day. 

We are grateful for open and honest communication without fear or insecurity. 

Our married life brings us joy, happiness, and comfort. 

We have the power to create the emotional and physical connect that we desire. 

Our marriage is a gift and we are meant to be.