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5 things you can do if you’re partner's love language is gift-receiving

5 things you can do if you’re partner's love language is gift-receiving

Actions do speak louder than words.

    • Sakshi Deshmukh
  • Aug 10, 2024
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Actions do speak louder than words.

According to Dr Gary Chapman, there are five love languages: words of affirmation, acts of service, quality time, physical touch, and receiving gifts. Each person expresses love differently, and understanding these differences is crucial for a fulfilling relationship. In our previous articles (links at the bottom), we discussed how to make your partner feel loved if their love languages are words of affirmation, acts of service, quality time, or even physical touch. 

Here, we will focus on the fifth love language—receiving gifts. Below, you'll find various ways to make your partner feel deeply loved and happy by prioritising quality time together.

Handwritten letters 

If your partner’s love language is receiving or giving gifts, it’s important to understand that non-material gifts often hold the most value for them. This is because their love language revolves around the idea of making others feel loved or loving themselves. One meaningful way to express this is by putting in the effort to do something special for them—this is what they appreciate the most. 

A handwritten letter is an especially cherished gesture. Take some time to sit down with pen and paper and write out your thoughts. Express why they make you so happy, what you love about them, and how much they mean to you. This shows that you value and understand their love language in a heartfelt way.

Get them their favourite flowers

For anyone whose core love language is receiving gifts, flowers are always a great choice. You can’t go wrong with them, as the effort you put into selecting flowers shows how much you care. Make a note of their favourite blooms and surprise them with those the next time you see them. You'll surely see their faces light up with happiness and love.

Think of personalised gifts 

Yes, people who have a love for receiving gifts often cherish them even more when they are tied to special memories. When giving a gift, consider the journey of your relationship and reflect on the meaningful moments you’ve shared. For instance, if you have a special memory at a particular restaurant, make a reservation there for your anniversary and surprise them with a dinner. You might also give them a piece of jewellery that holds significance, such as one engraved with both of your initials or a design that resonates with your shared experiences.


Make them a playlist 

In the past, people used to make "mix tapes" for one another, but now Spotify playlists have taken their place. However, this gesture remains one of the sweetest ways to show your affection. Curate a playlist with songs that are meaningful to both of you, and this will convey your love without needing to say a word. After all, actions often speak louder than words. Communicating in your partner's love language is a powerful way to express your feelings.

Send them their favourite treat in the middle of the day 

Everyone has a favourite dessert spot, and if your partner is having a tough day, sending them something from that special place can be a thoughtful gesture. Imagine their surprise and delight when they receive a treat from their favourite spot, brightening their day and showing that you care about them. It's a simple yet great way to offer support and spread a bit of joy, tangibly demonstrating your love and care.

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Also read: 6 things you can do if your partner's love language is physical touch

Also read: Here’s how you can show your love if words of affirmation are your partner’s language